Cheryl Healey

Helping you and children be the gift you came here to be – naturally

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Heaven is a Feeling

This reality is a temporary illusion.  What you think about what is happening now; what you feel about what is happening now; and how you respond or react to what is happening in this temporary moment in time determines to a large degree how it will turn out and unfold.

Everything is energy.  Everything and everyone is energy.  Everyone and everything has a frequency.  You “tune into” the frequency of your choice.

If you are fooled by the temporary illusion or person vying for your attention, you can choose to react negatively which will invite similar energy to respond right back at you.  If you choose the higher road or higher feeling, you tune into a higher vibration allowing God, Angels and goodness to flow to you and the situation.  I believe this is what Jesus meant by “turning the other cheek.”

Turning the other cheek is for you – not to provide an opportunity for the other person to attack again.  It means choosing a higher response so lower vibrations are no longer able to elicit the reaction from you they are seeking and thereby drag you down to their level of vibration.  It also gives them an opportunity to choose a higher road and vibration.

For example, if someone tries to bully you and you ignore them, it takes the fun out of it for them.  They will either try different tactics to grab your attention and energy, move on to someone else who will react to their M.O., or perhaps choose love instead.  I am not suggesting this is always an easy thing to do.  I am saying, however, it is well worth your effort if your heart or gut guides you to do so.

There is always a peaceful solution to conflict once we realize we all just have different points of view.

As Rodney King said so beautifully, “Why can’t we all just get along?”

“You have your way. I have my way.  As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

“The surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in higher esteem those who think alike than those who think differently.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

“All things are subject to interpretation; whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” – Albert Einstein

I listed those quotes because everyone has beliefs that are usually influenced by collective beliefs which are set by the media and current-day spin-doctors.  The real power lies with God and our connection to God.  What we focus on creates more of what we focus upon.

In a vibrational universe, the feeling is the prayer to which God responds.  The more consistent vibration “wins.”  We have been living in a fear-based society since 911.  I believe the prophecies of 2012 offer us each a new beginning toward the choice for love and forgiveness.  Jesus taught that forgiveness is the road to heaven.  Heaven is an inside job.

Create heaven on the inside, and you will bring it into your life and project it onto the world and those in the world.  It happens one person at a time.  To live in fear or unforgiveness is hell on Earth.  Those in fear are more easily manipulated. 

Heaven is a feeling.  Will you choose heaven?  How does that feel to you?

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Just Decide!

Are you or anyone you know seemingly on the fence about something?  One day they’re gung-ho and in action, and the next day they’re wondering if this will ‘offend’ anyone or ‘pay the bills’ or ‘whatever’.  Indecision makes you miserable and analysis paralysis only prolongs the agony.  The truth is we’re not here to please everyone and we can’t do it all.  That may come as a tough blow to a lot of women and people pleasers in particular.  I should know as I’m both!  Correction and cancel – I’m still a woman but choose to give up people pleasing and step into my purpose with gusto!  NOW!

Many gifts came to me within the last week to help me realize life is too short to not live itNOW!  It’s more painful to stay on a fence than move forward come what may.  I’d like to share just two of the gifts with you that touched me deeply.

The first is a book entitled “I Choose” by Suzin Helen Carr and illustrated by her son Chandler J. CarrThere’s also an “I Choose Too” for adults.  Check them out at:

The second gift is a lovely and inspiring video by Stewart St. John entitled “This Year”.

Please share this with anyone you know who may need a little boost or helping hand. Life is meant to be joyful and empowering.  Help them go for the gusto!

Need help getting in gear?  Give me a call.  I’d love to help you.

“Do or do not do, there is no try.” – Yoda