Cheryl Healey

Helping children be the gift they came here to be – naturally


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Resolving to Succeed in the New Year? Help is Here!

“Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.”

Albert Einstein

How many times have you set goals or resolutions for the New Year and not followed through to success? How many times have you succeeded?

My hope for you is that you succeeded more often than not. The trouble often encountered is sustaining the success you achieve.  Studies have shown that it takes anywhere from 21 to 90 days to create a new habit.  Depending on how long the old behavior has been ingrained in your mind and lifestyle, it may take even longer.  One thing is certain, however, it always takes a firm heart-felt decision on your part to see you through to the success you desire.

Ask yourself these questions before you begin:

  • What do I really want?
  • Why do I want it?
  • How will I feel when I get it?

Once you are very clear on your what, why and the feeling of having it, you are ready to move forward. Build a plan of action and stick with it.  Get help from a “buddy” or a coach to keep you on track.

Next, think of your life as a movie. How many roles have you played so far in this movie called your life?  By roles I mean jobs, careers, relationships, hobbies, accomplishments, etc. – essentially anything in which you are or were able to place an “I am” in front of it.

Now think of this new resolution as a new role in your life. Act as if you are preparing for that new role in your life as an actor does.  They gain or loose weight; they get in shape; they learn a new language or skill; they speak to people who have already experienced this new role or the exact person they are about to portray.  In other words, they immerse themselves in the role as if it were their life.

Well guess what? This is your life.  Just because it’s only one aspect doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it all you’ve got.  Everything in life is temporary.  Why not make the changes as much fun as possible?

Sure actors may get millions of dollars for the roles they play, but that’s where your WHY comes in. What’s it worth to you to achieve this goal and succeed?  How will you feel if you don’t?

Only you can muster the energy and desire to create the results in your life that will make you feel the way you want to feel.

You deserve the best because you are the best. God does not create mistakes.  God creates opportunities for you to be the best you choose to be.

The choice is always yours. That’s why God gave you free will regardless of what appears to go on around you or in the world.  Focus and belief are your tickets to success.  Tap into your why, focus on the feeling of having it now, and keep moving forward to the role you choose for your life.

Make a list of all the successes you have experienced in your life and keep an ongoing journal of them. No matter how small, every movement forward toward your goals is a success – especially if it makes you feel good about yourself.

To your fabulous life!

Enjoy a blessed and joyful New Year,

Cheryl

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When God Holds Your Hand

Have you ever doubted that God or a power bigger than you “had your back”? In case you have, this story will remind you to notice the little signs that divine energy is always with you.

If you’re familiar with my work, website or blogs, you already know that I am a very spiritual person. You may also know that I have a purpose that is quite big – at least in my estimation. However, that’s just when I’m feeling small or outnumbered and focus on fear rather than the magic and miracles all around me or the growing number of like-minded people in the world.

I currently have a part-time job as a waitress while I work on my business and a new book. Since I believe everything is a gift and an opportunity, I was gifted with an experience recently that touched my heart and reminded me why my purpose is so important.

A table of five adults and one very young boy were in my section at the restaurant. The little boy kept trying to communicate with me as best he could and engage me in conversation. He was too young to speak words clearly, but he communicated with his smile and pure loving and joyful energy.

During one of my visits to check on his table, this child took my hand in his and held my hand as he began to interact with others at the table. He held my hand as if it was the most normal and natural thing for me to stand there by his side and hold hands. Tears just started to come to my eyes at the pure love and openness in this child. So I stood there as long as I could holding hands with this messenger of God with pure gratitude in my heart and Soul.

Those of you who have children and interact with them on a daily basis may not think this event too unusual or such a big deal. What makes this unique for me is that my purpose is to help children remember their connection to God, what they came here to do, and to help them in the most natural way possible. This includes a healthy and humane food supply.

So it is quite significant to me that this child whom I did not know and never met before held my hand and expected me to stay there with him while he was already in the midst of those who love him dearly.

It felt as if God was working through this child reminding me of my purpose and to stay the course no matter how challenging the road may appear to be.

During this holiday season, please take time to notice the signs God is sending your way. They are always there because we are always blessed and gifted with more love and grace than we typically notice.

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Enjoy infinite blessings,

Cheryl


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What’s missing?

Gratitude is the strongest positive emotion you can feel. Has your gratitude practice, if you have one, filled the void of what’s missing in your life yet?

If not, then you may have a block to receiving what you want. Want to learn why you’re not receiving by asking a few questions?

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Look for the Rainbow…

I’m sure you’ve heard the question: What came first, the chicken or the egg?

Have you ever had an intuitive hit and then “it” happened? Well what came first? The intuitive hit or the event letting you know it was on its way to you?

Some faiths teach that God places the dreams and creative ideas in our hearts and minds. Some quantum physicists tell us that everything is already created and that we just have to keep moving in the direction of what we dream to receive it. Other theorists have stated our existence and everything in it is part of a hologram and thoughts, ideas, emotions and things float by our awareness and we choose what to focus on believing it is all part of us and our reality.

What do you believe is possible for your life and your children? Do you believe that ADHD is real? Do you believe that a child or anyone cannot succeed without specific credentials? Many of the societal memes are proving to be just that – collective belief myths.

“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood…I took the one less traveled, and that has made all the difference.” – Robert Frost

A recent episode of the Katie Couric Show featured a Father/Author of an autistic young adult. The Dad is an executive who created a program for disabled young people at the corporation where he works. This idea came from his worry about what would happen to his son after he passed on. This program is thriving and spreading to other companies as well.

What came first: this man’s purpose to help disabled young people thrive or his autistic son’s birth?

Here’s one less deep example from my life. When I traveled as a consultant for a financial-services software company, I got an intuitive knowing that I would get a scorpion in my room on an upcoming trip to Tucson. It was so strong that I asked about scorpions when I checked in to find out how to avoid them.

Sure enough, one evening when I was working in my room on my computer, a scorpion showed up. Doing the stereotypical female response, I jumped on the bed with the phone and called the front desk. Two young staff members came and removed it.

So here are some questions to ponder:
• Did the intuitive hit I got before leaving for Tucson plant the seed that caused me to focus on that potential outcome which caused it to happen?
• Was that outcome already a forgone conclusion for me for whatever reason and my intuition was warning me to be on the lookout for it to keep me safe and create the smoothest path through it?
• Did they happen simultaneously?
• If I had ignored the intuitive hit about the scorpion as having no meaning at all, would another reality have emerged for me in Tucson that did not include a scorpion in my hotel room?

While this is a seemingly unimportant event in anyone’s life, this example is transferable to any event in anyone’s life that involves intuition.

Your focus is part of your creative process – consciously and unconsciously. Distractions draw your attention away from what you want to create. The Dad I mentioned earlier focused on solutions rather than the problems associated with autism.

“A human being is a creature who has received the order to become God.” – Saint Basil

What this means to me is to be a creator. Co-create with God by letting the power of God flow through you and out into the world.

What do you want to create for your life?

What do your children (if you have any) want for their lives?

Everything is temporary and everything is a gift. So why not enjoy life as if it were a long string of events at Disney? Some will scare us and some will thrill us. Some will have a broader purpose such as the father who created programs for disabled young adults or me and others spreading the word that certain health “conditions” only exist because of a toxic food supply and environment.

In the end, will it really matter which one happened first as long as you followed your guidance from God as best you could and enjoyed the rides as best you could? It is said that love is all we take with us when we leave this realm. So I believe it would help to know if it enhances our ability to love and be loved.

“If you can’t fly, then run. If you can’t run, then walk. If you can’t walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Life has become challenging for many people during this time of great transition on our planet. Focus on solutions. Forgive yourself and others. Take time to breathe, recharge and rest. Follow your own intuition and create and receive miracles from God because they happen all the time.

You just have to pay attention.

For example, yesterday there were rainbows in the clouds. No rainstorm; no typical rainbow that went across the sky – just pieces of rainbows in the clouds that kept changing shapes and colors. It was magnificent! I have pictures, but unfortunately can’t upload them yet due to technical issues. My point in sharing this example without the benefit of the pictures is to inspire you to remember that inside every cloud there is a rainbow waiting to emerge if you just pay attention, believe, and keep moving forward.

Wishing you all the best.

Enjoy infinite blessings,

Cheryl


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Give Yourself Permission

Did you know that your belief system is mostly gifted to you by the time you are 5 to 7 years young? It’s true. The reasoning portion of the brain doesn’t start to develop until then. So most of what you learn prior to that age is given to you by those who are chartered with keeping you safe, able to fit in and “succeed” in life.

There can sometimes be a problem with this model, however, as limiting beliefs can be passed down from family members, teachers and others. For instance, were you taught that money doesn’t grow on trees even though money is made from trees? Were you taught that you had to be seen and not heard and speak only when spoken to? Was being loved equated with being what others wanted you to be even if it didn’t make you happy or feel like you?

What if your adult life is a journey to becoming your true self and being true to yourself while helping others and the world if that is what you choose? What if all it takes in each moment is to be present and true to your true self? What if connecting with and following your own guidance leads to miracles?

Jesus said all that he did so could we and more. So why don’t we believe we can walk on water or turn water into wine? Why don’t we take for granted magically miraculous things that connect us to the infinite God source that surges through each and every being? What if giving yourself permission is the start of something fabulous in your life?

Here are some things to ponder for yourself, your children if you have any and anyone with whom you would like to share.

• Are you allowed to be powerful and successful even if other people aren’t or don’t want you to be?
• Are you allowed to be beautiful inside and out?
• Are you allowed to be sexy?
• Are you allowed to lift the ceiling on how much you can earn doing what you love to do?
• Are you allowed to receive miracles from your divine source even if others don’t believe in such things?
• Are you allowed to create boundaries to protect yourself from family members or others who do not have your highest interests at heart?
• Are you allowed to love unconditionally if you choose?
• Are you allowed to forgive yourself or others even if most people hold grudges and think you should too?
• Are you allowed to create and receive what your heart desires even if others don’t?
• Are you allowed to create the life you desire even if there is suffering in the world?
• Are you allowed to speak your truth regardless of how others may react or disagree?
• Are you allowed to be the essence of God you are and the gift you came here to be?

If not, why not?

The Legend of Two Wolves speaks of the struggle that goes on inside each of us.

Give yourself permission if that is what YOU choose. The greatest courage you will ever need is to be the gift you came here to be. If you need a little help moving forward, coaching is great tool. Feel free to contact me and gift yourself or your child with a complimentary coaching consultation today. You deserve the life of your dreams. Don’t let limited thinking hold you back.

Give yourself permission.

Enjoy infinite blessings,

Cheryl Healey
The Gift Of You


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Dance with the New – A Dream Interpretation

Do you pay attention to your dreams?

I had a dream the other night just before waking. In the dream, I was watching a young man dance with the energy around him. Pretty soon a young woman appeared in front of him and was dancing with him in the same energy. Then someone on his right, and then many others on his left.

Dream interpretation is a very personal thing. Dreams are a metaphor for aspects of ourselves. They show us what’s going on in our lives combined with what our intuition is trying to tell us.

Many years ago I had requested of my consciousness that dreams I needed to remember be shared right before I awaken. So I always take note of dreams I have just before I wake up.

How I interpret this particular dream may be different than your interpretation of my dream. However, if you receive a gift here on either dream interpretation or something more specific to benefit your life, this story was worth sharing.

Now back to my dream. Since I was watching all of this and not participating in the dance, I was the observer. Could I be observing too much in my life and not participating enough?

The young man represented my male energy; the go-getter, results-oriented, type-A aspect of myself. However, he was going with the flow while still being intuitive enough to notice the subtle signs of the dance. Something I don’t always tend to do under stress or a self-imposed deadline.

The young woman that appeared represented my feminine energy; the receiver of life and birth of the new joining to bring it into form as a dance in life – or achieve results gracefully and joyfully from the heart.

As other people began to appear in the dance, I felt connected to something larger than just the dance I was doing.

Being a very sensitive and intuitive person with a background in the corporate sector, integration of both of these aspects within myself has not always been easy. I sometimes go to one extreme or the other. Hopefully this dream was telling me that I have integrated these aspects energetically and now I just need to go with the flow and follow the signs to bring it into form gracefully.

There could perhaps be an additional message in the dream to manage stress more effectively.

How are you enjoying your dance? Need a little assistance? Feel free to comment, share or contact me.

If you haven’t read the article on Focus Mastery yet, please check it out.

Enjoy infinite blessings,

Cheryl

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